Are You Trying To Save Your Relationship?
Unfortunately, sometimes relationships fall apart. However not every relationship is doomed just because things begin to get a little bumpy. In fact, many relationships can be saved. However, it will take effort from both sides. The process is much simpler when you know where the problem is stemming from and have some useful tips to help make things better.
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Things aren’t going well between you. Have you just outgrown each other? Do you both need to learn how to compromise? Or do you need professional help to put things right? Here’s some common relationship problems and how to help fix them.
First love ending
Very frequently, when people are in a first relationship they believe it will go on forever. Often it feels very special and magical. So, even if you know that – statistically – first-love is unlikely to last, it can be a terrible blow when it doesn’t. However, it’s important to remember that if your first love ends, you can still treasure its memory for the rest of your life. Its experience will also help you move on and find something even better in the future.
I love them but I’m not ‘in love’ with them anymore
Maybe your problems are about the intensity of the relationship. The kind of change that happens after you’ve been in a relationship for a while is natural. But it can worry people. You may feel your relationship is no good just because you no longer get breathless at the very thought of your boy or girlfriend.
But what you have to remember is that the first stages of being ‘in love’ are so intense that it’s difficult to get on with real life at the same time! After a while, you’re bound to want to concentrate on your job or to see your friends more. This doesn’t mean that your relationship is passed its sell-by date unless there are other things wrong with it too.
First baby
Research shows that the most dangerous time for a relationship is around the time of a first baby. And that even if the relationship doesn’t end for another 20 years, its troubles can usually be traced back to the months surrounding the first child’s birth.
This makes bleak reading, doesn’t it? But of course loads of young parents stay happy and enjoy their babies. However, it’s worth realizing that this is a difficult time and seeking some help from a counselor, GP or health visitor before your problems get out of hand.
Are you sure this isn’t about sex?
If what’s going wrong is about sex, one of you finds it hurts, one wants it more than the other or one can’t have an orgasm you may want to consider sex therapy.
How to help your relationship
If your relationship is in trouble, there are a few things you can try before going the whole hog and getting a counsellor:
•Never have an important discussion or row after 9pm. The chances are that you’ll be tired or boozed, or both – you’ll solve your differences much better in the morning.
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To see the rest of the tips on how to make things better, The Site
